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SHOW THE LOVE
TOFW
February 01, 2012

Love is shared with different people in different ways.

With Valentine’s Day coming up, we asked a few of our Time Out for Women presenters how they  “Show the Love” to people around them.  Read the fun things they had to say:


Whitney Permann (from Mercy River)

I don't live close to any of my siblings, and they are all younger than me and in a "different stage" of life. This, year, I have been impressed to send frequent, simple text messages to them to share cute anecdotes, random pictures of my kids, or a few words of encouragement. I hope this can help them know that I am thinking of them and love them even though we don't talk a lot.



"To a Child, Love is Spelled T-I-M-E."

No matter what else I get accomplished during the day, I never regret the time I spend playing with my kids. Not one single minute. Even if the dishes stay waiting by the sink, the laundry stays in the dryer (for another week) and the floors stay speckled with crumbs. Taking time to give my boys their favorite thing-ME-always gives me that settled feeling of peace and satisfaction when I lay down at night. I've found that no other pursuit is more worthy of my attention than showing my children I'm here, I care, and I love them.






Check out those ears!!!  4th grade photo.
I sewed that outfit all by myself and was so proud.

Merrilee Boyack


My goal this year is to work on being kind.  I've discovered that one of the kindest things I can do is listen.  I'm not very good at that!  So I just keep thinking the whole time, "Merrilee, be kind.  Keep listening.  Be kind."  It has really helped a LOT!





OK, more current picture below . . . with my grandkids, Keaton and Linnea




Kris Belcher


I’ve really been trying hard lately to verbally acknowledge each thing my husband does for me.  Also, when there is a way I need him to support me emotionally; I am making an effort to express my feelings without coming across like a victim.  It’s tough stuff!!!!  But, I am trying.  I think it is helping me feel more love for him.




How do YOU “Show the LOVE”?  We want to hear—share below!



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Comments
reid
"Siblings"....whatever happened to my brothers and sisters?
February 01, 2012 | Reply | Report Abuse
kelly
Say Thank you and sending a "note of appreciation" , everyone needs to be noticed and appreciated!
February 01, 2012 | Reply | Report Abuse
reid
these comments are very interesting. i have found that women generally want to talk about themselves, their feelings, kids, grandkids, shopping. men are bored with this type of conversation and it is the main reason men dont enjoy spending time with women.
February 01, 2012 | Reply | Report Abuse
Andrea
I try to show the people that I love that I love them by doing things in their "love language", for my oldest daughter, it is doing activities with her that she is interested in. My youngest daughter loves cuddle time, so if We rent a movie that she picks and she sits on my lap the whole time she loves it. My husband needs a lot of praise, so I make sure to look for things to appreciate and acknowledge every day. My sister loves gifts, so I pick out things that are perfect for her, my brother loves fun physical activities so we do things like hiking and stuff. Basically, I just try to do what would mean the most to everyone instead of doing what I would like them to do for me.
February 01, 2012 | Reply | Report Abuse
Kris
What wonderful ideas. Thanks so much.
February 01, 2012 | Reply | Report Abuse
kelly
I don't want to bring contention to this thread, but the comments from "Reid" do not seem to fit in with the spirit of what TOFW is all about and I was sad to read his comment. I love to feel the warm, wonderful spirit of love as I read entries on this site, but I felt that spirit leave with his comment.
February 05, 2012 | Reply | Report Abuse
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